Thursday, July 22, 2010

"Kate's Not Gay!"

Last Saturday I'm having coffee with a friend, a guy I've known for about 10 years. It was the first time we've had to catch up since I moved back. It was great to see him. During our hours long conversation, he starts laughing, some might say giggling. A mutual acquaintance mentioned to him that she knew I was gay. He told me he laughed out loud and said, "Kate's Not Gay!"

What? Maybe that's the reason men aren't beating down the door to ask me out? Am I giving off some kind of 'gay vibe?' I mean to each his own, but I'm totally straight (and a good catch, in my opinion!) So I can either believe that men are just clueless or I'm giving off a vibe. Hmmm, I think I'll go with (and I'm using about 20 years of dating experience here) that men are clueless!

1 comment:

Ms. G said...

My sister had the same problem.
I even asked her one time just to make sure. She was nice enough to laugh but she simply has such a hard time finding a decent guy.